Nothing gets my goat up more than people that don't understand how to network in a healthy way. You've met them. The person that tries to get to know you and you KNOW that he is only caring about you because they want something from you. They want to sell something to you or pick your brain on business ideas with NO intention of a relationship that is mutually gratifying or beneficial.
Add to that that everyone is told that their network is the most important thing in their lives that they could build and we have an epidemic of people that just want to add to their network just in case they need something from it.
What these people don't realize is that in building their network this way does nothing for them and really renders their networks useless. You can have a MASSIVE list of people that you have had contact with but a completely USELESS network because you have no relationship with any of them other than a name on contact list.
When you are building a network it should be one in which EVERYONE gets benefit from it. Both the person building their network and the people that are a part of it.
IT"S ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS. Mutually beneficial relationships. Think of it like this. Each person is a bank account and you can make deposits and withdraws. Unless you have done sufficient deposits there is nothing to withdraw and you are asking for a loan or an overdraft. It is very important that if you want to get the most out of your relationships you have to have deposited as much as possible before you ever withdraw.
So when you are working on building your networks please make sure you are depositing in the people that you are asking to be a part of your network. Not only will you have a more effective network you will gain some life long friends along the way. I know I have.
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